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"A household located in North London seeks an exceptional and skilled educator to assist their most junior child on his initial journey to becoming an English gentleman."

Looking at this post, you might naturally skip the term "beginning" as mere a turn of phrase.

Yet, it could be the most important element of this distinctive job advert, as it seeks to find a mentor for a one-year-old.

Many of responses have since been sent in since the unidentified family posted their call for the £180,000 per year tutor, who has to be "someone very special".

Over the last few weeks, the advert has gained notice throughout the news, with several asking why?

Forward-Thinking Method

The CEO, head and founder of Tutors International, which is supporting the family in their search, said that notwithstanding early scepticism, he viewed the plan "visionary", and "progressive".

When he spoke with the family, he mentioned they appreciated the unusual character of their request, and how young their son is.

But, they clarified that they "preferred not to postpone any longer" to engage a tutor, as they had postponed until their firstborn was five, and by that stage "cultural bias had already become established".

What exactly does the family refer to by "cultural predisposition"?

It's "all-encompassing", Adam responded. "The way you eat, the way you speak".

He said the firstborn had absorbed "extremely delicate, body language" from the family, and had assumed their cultural ways. The family told the consultant they did not want this pattern to recur with their younger child.

The strategy: To bring in a British tutor, who must speak with RP, to influence the baby right from the beginning.

Natural Absorption

"A great deal of the education at the outset here is kind of osmotic," stated the CEO.

It's via this osmosis that the family are expecting the child will acquire the English characteristics they want to instil.

Adam explained the tutor had to be an individual who studied at "prestigious academies – similar types of schools as the family aspire to send their son to".

"The educator must be the appropriate candidate, they'll be performing things they don't even know they're doing, simply by nature," he said.

Cost Not Relevant

The family explained to the expert the successful candidate should ideally also have understanding of or passion in horse riding, alpine skiing, creative fields and music so as to inspire the child in a diverse set of interests.

More than that though, he stated the family hoped the tutor to register the child on a selection of lessons so the child would be "equestrian training and starting an instrument by the time they are about three years old".

In the family's minds, assisting their son grow into a "UK sophisticate" will lead to accomplishment and open doors.

"For all the pros and cons of that, because it's definitely a class statement," he notes.

However, in spite of all this instruction in "English culture", might the child absorb so-called cultural leaning from the multicultural family he is raised by regardless?

"Certainly", replied he. "They realize this could fail, but they've just taken the view of, 'why not attempt it and we'll proceed as soon as we can', because the price of it is irrelevant," he stated.

Idealistic and Unrealistic

A number of in the education sector who share these concerns.

Peter Cui, CEO and founder of an educational organization, who also offer individual instructors, wrote that "the journey of adopting dual cultures, or actually, forming one's identity, is something that must be experienced personally, not engineered."

He wrote that he had moved from Asia to the UK at the age of childhood, and had been raised experiencing and practicing both cultures. He continued to be educated at Cambridge University.

"The notion that a single person can serve as a living vessel of Britishness, a person who can somehow impart the characteristics of a British gentleman upon a infant child, appears optimistic and unrealistic," he wrote.

"In my experience, engaging a distinctly British tutor from early childhood will does not necessarily produce the goal they desire.

"I did not have such a figure, and nevertheless I have been fortunate enough to experience many of the experiences they desire for their son."

He continued: "The truth is, personal identity can not be imposed from the outside; it must be embraced, and it must come from within."

Buying Britishness

Of course, UK identity is something the CEO believes can be instructed – and sold.

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